A guy in my class told me that he liked me and i knew about it for awhile now. The thing is I'm not sure if i like him too. Most of the time, i wait for him to message me. I feel lonely at first but when he sends me a message that feeling goes away. I don't know I'm just attached to him or not. And whenever we pass each other in the hallway, i avoid looking at him, or something like that. I get awkward when we try to talk to each other alone. I also act weird; I try to look pretty around him which i usually don't do. I like that he likes me but i dunno about this
Do i really like him or im just attached, or maybe i just like being appreciated???
Obviously it depends a lot on what kind of a person you are, but for me this sounds like you should give it a shot. And I know, you might think now "but what if it ruins our friendship?"
By personal experience (sorry if that sounds scary now): It is already ruining. If he really likes you, there is not that much of a chance to go back to "normal", ...... 1 reply
All i can say to you is just how about you try to be yourself around him? Don't act awkward or avoid him when you meet him in hallway. Also how about you try go out with him? Like go out with as a friend first then try to go out on date? So you can like see the differences? And if you feel like you are still confuse try to not meet him, and see wha...... 2 reply
Hi. First let me say that it's great that you are self aware and looking at what you possibly feel and why. Also that you are compassionate enough to want to do what is best regarding him too. You mentioned a lot about how he makes you feel good. That you like that he likes you. You miss him when he doesn't reach out. But you also wait for him...... 1 reply
