Asking for Gay Bottom's out there:

Is it true that you are simillar to a girl? like bottom's are pure and virgin, simillar to a girl?

OR

Yaoi BL manga dont really portay the real life of a bottom? like you can still have fuck buddy and you are not similar to an innocent girl?


BTW, Im gay and virgin so I want to know some perspectives about being bottom because I think Im also one (assuming)