I’ve been reading yaoi for several years now and I feel like being gay is the norm ( ̄∇ ̄") not to say that being gay isn’t normal. Like I still read shoujo but in real life when I think about a man and woman dating, it somehow seems weird to me, like I don’t immediately think of man and woman but I also don’t think of man and man immediately... I just think of the word ‘dating’ and stop there. It’s really hard to explain when I’m conscious of what I’m trying to say lol.