i can't stress this enough istg

i hate that in bls when a seme gets mad at the other person their first thought is to "discipline them" by using sex. like i genuinely don't get why authors do this. and it angers me because most of the time it's borderline rape.

there is really no need to show that. why not try and communicate first??? i hate that authors make sex their way of confrontation.

like what happened in the recent chapters of big apple. i absolutely couldn't stand it