How comfortable will you be if your son was being targeted by his gay friend?
So guys, hear this story and share me your thoughts about it. Thanks.
"My son, [Timmy], and I have a really good relationship. So, he does feel secure talking about his dates and friends to me. Last time, he invited friends over. So, I knew many months ago that one of them, [Josh], was gay.
I didn't mind that since it was just [Josh]'s circumstances. I was okay with that. In our family, we value and respect differences. However, I felt really uncomfortable when I saw [Josh] sneaking many glances at my son during the party and being to touchy with him. I know my son is straight and is in relationship with [Rachelle] since two years already.
It's not like I'd ask my son to end their friendship, but I am afraid that [Josh] hits on him. I mean, [Timmy] is not even gay. Of course, I didn't talk to the matter to him. I'll respect his decision relating his love life : he is not a kid anymore. Still, I really don't want him to go through all the stigma... I am maybe being too extra, but I can't stop feeling anxious about this whole situation as if my son was in danger.
Am I weird for feeling this way?"
Please, share your thoughts. It's the LGBT+ month, it's a good occasion to reflect on this kind of scenarios. Thanks. (=・ω・=)
I think the mother has every right to be worried. I respect every people but beware "so touchy" is a very dangerous word. There's could be an assault or groping or sexual harassment, which is very wrong without one's consent.
But maybe (just maybe) it's kind of not good to make assumptions just from the mom's viewpoint, I hope she talks with her ......
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10 06,2021