Hello, it's been a while that I was wondering something about myself. How can I know if I'm asexual ? To begin with, I've never watch porn, nor wanted to watch one, never "pleasure" myself and never wanted it either. I dated a guy not so long ago. Whenever, we were doing "adult stuff" I was always trying to convince myself that I was enjoying it, but to be honest I didn't feel anything. Is it because he wasn't THE one ? Or am I asexual ? (I am 20y.o between) Can someone help me please ? ╥﹏╥
Okay, so as an asexual I think I can maybe put some light on this. Now, being asexual is the lack of sexual desire which means you can actually enjoy sex or pleasure yourself to release some pressure or stuff, but you can never (or very rarely because grey also exists) feel the need to actually have sex. Like you can eat a cake but you will never f...... 1 reply
So far no one mentioned it, but if you really felt nothing, no pleasure at all, then you should see a doctor before you think about your sexuality - asexuals get physically aroused as much as sexual people. It's a natural response to stimulation, if you like it or not is a personal matter, but if there wasn't anything, then there's likely something...... 1 reply
Watch one(p0rn) , research about so called pleasure, try not to convince yourself but try to explain it to your partner and ask for his cooperation for rehabilitation for you. You can go slowly. 3 reply