Instead of communicating I will rape you

Ok so after reading various genres of romance and discovering a lot of shit I have come across a lot of absurdity that needs to be stopped. YES IM TALKING ABOUT RAPE!
So I have seen male leads in manga being possessive asf. They will get jealous even when the lover is close to their siblings. Then after misunderstanding that shit they will just forcibly pull their lover from the poor dude and forces sex on them. YOOOO- Yall can just communicate and talk shit out. BUT NO THIS BITCH GONNA SHOW HIS PSYCHO SIDE AND MANIPULATE THEIR LOVER!!! Im so sick and tired of this trope.

tl;dr - stop using rape and let the characters communicate as for toxic relationships... i dont even have anything to say i-