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1. I hate rape, cheating and when the guys have sex (penetration) with no lube. Imagine the pain. Ouch. 2. I don't exactly hate this, but it does kinda annoy me that almost every yaoi has a top/bottom pairing. I would prefer seeing more reversible couples.   1 reply

I know most yaoi is written by women, but as a gay guy I really hate it when it's obvious that the woman writer has absolutely no idea how gay relationships/sex works (╬￣皿￣)   5 reply

Hate: ✘ Rape - I'm really into rape-play, but actual rape makes the hair stand on my body. I prefer if I at least know they are both consenting (ex. Souyuu Ganbou no Hanashi by ECHO Jiro) ✘ Cheating - From either side. For me, cheating is the second worst thing you can do in a relationship (fictional or real) and then you don't deserve to be wi......   reply

The bitchy female character who's only purpose of existance is to cause misunderstandings and try to break the couple apart. Like i understand the need for drama but i hate how it's always a girl, and shes only there for the conflict. Id like to see more girls that are actually supportive and complex characters, instead of only being there to go "o......   2 reply

when the characters don't act like guys or real people at all and it's super stereotypical teary-eyed doormat feminine guy with a borderline abusive other guy.   1 reply

That whole thing where the uke does absolutely nothing but the seme is turned on by it anyway and he (the seme) says "Take responsibility for making me feel this way!" and then sexually assaults him (uke). Like, fuck off, dude. Victim-blaming, much?   1 reply

This ones pretty specific but I see this all the time. It's when the uke's first sexual desire towards the seme is purely caused by a drug/aphrodisiac & not bc he wants to sleep w/ the seme on his own accord. Idk I'd prefer to see an organic sexual experience rather than one that's awakened solely from drugs.   1 reply

when the uke looks like a girl...? i'm okay with pretty boy, but some ukes look EXACTLY like girl.   5 reply

Great power imbalances. When a femenine character aka uke aka omega is sooo good-for-nothing-but-still-cute, and poor, stupid, socially awkward, clumsy and naive, while a masculine character aka seme aka alfa is smart, handsome, cool, rich and willing and capable of making the other one do whatever he wants him to. This is really only the thing wit......   1 reply

Problems caused because of miscommunication! Leading to all the shitty problems, that makes everybody be like Uggh! Just talk and explain yourself already!   1 reply