5 Question for fujoshis from a gay guy

1.) Well, for me, when I read those heart-fluttering yaoi moments I would love to be gay. For me, it's what I read that would really made me want to be gay because unfortunately in my case I don't have even a tiny trail of romantic love in my life. I'm freakin 20 and I haven't gotten an invitation to be someone's romantic partner. It's sad. that's my life righht there haha. So if I read that, I'd be like ghadddd I want to be gay just so that I could experience being loved like that. Being protected like that. Being treasured like that. You know? Cause I hadn't experienced that. And you know how the manga portray gay men? They're fucking precious. I love them so much that it has also changed the way I see gay people in real life. Cause I really know it's hard for you guys. We're not disregarding that fact when we say we want to be gay. Also, yeah, being a woman isn't so easy at least for me. I don't how to deal with men, With people in general. Because where I'm from I can't just go to the person I like and be like, 'fuck the world, I love you.' I'm a woman *rolls eyes* I'm so done.

In yaoi/shounen ai/bl, you see how they would conquer their fears and let love consume them. That it doesn't matter what they are as long as their hearts are connected. And tbh, in reality that's what I would have preferred to do. But, I can't.

2. I never look down on fem characters. They are freakin beautiful. And tbh I see them here in our country. they're so beautiful. You're beautiful. Kyaaa. I love gay. Hiihihihihi.

3. Well I read all sorts of pairings so not sure what to say about this. It's not gross for me. Well, there will be people who will judge it more because it's not their cup of tea.

4. yeah, I know right it's odd. I'm odd. I've been feeling that when I'm around people. Knowing myself that I read bl and not shoujo (that seems accepted for a girl to read here). Well, I read yaoi because it's really heart-fluttering. I love it. I can't get enough. I just love it. Can't explain.

5. Hey, now. yaoi isn't just porn you know? yes, It's like porn with a plot but most of yaoi have rather decent plots. And I don't necessarily think porn when I think about yaoi, it varies from people to people. I just think yaoi has a more of an intense plot and shounen ai is the cutesy heartwarming stuff. And I haven't seen any gay couple in real life. Would love to know. Not because I want to know if they have sex and gropefest but I want to know their love story and their love life (not in an intruding way or crossing the line way). Cause isn't a love story of basically anybody really lovely to know?


You know, what the society had embedded into our minds are not always easy to change. And there will be people judging other people's preferences. just ignore them because even if you say it again and again if they have truly rooted it in their minds there is no changing it.