Why are fujoshis generalized to be detestable and disgusting?

I like reading Bl because of the chemistry and the hardships of the characters but does that mean im a disgusting person? Because all I see when talking about fujoshi they're disgusting all that. I only fangirl in fiction characters that have good dynamics not irl because ik its disrespectful and how you will make others uncomfortable. So what I'm saying is not all fujoshis are like that and i'm feeling offended af even tho ik its not directed at me. And im sorry on behalf of all the inappropriate things they've said (even me is grossed out)

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Sleeps In Sunbeams 01 06,2021

It’s something that has puzzled me too. From what I have read, there are a few key complaints. It starts that yaoi is written by women for women (unlike bara which is written by men for men) and the majority of readers actually are women (a large proportion of them being straight women). There are some who think that simply because you are fema...... reply

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[DELETED] 31 05,2021

This topic has been continuing for days and at this point, it just feels like people are trying to look for valid reasons for them to continue reading bl. As a cis straight woman, I've had many conversations with people about this, and the consensus is, it's fine as long as you respect the lgbtq+ community. I used to refer to myself as one bc like ...... 1 reply

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YIKES 31 05,2021

People like to generalize shit. Don't worry about it. Read whatever tf u want. Most fujos aren't even half as bad and intrusive as the the men that fetishize lesbian romances. AND that's been going on for YEAARS. And most people that're trying to gatekeep on here also read YAOI lmao. Just cos they don't read the toxic shit doesn't make em any less...... 1 reply

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jaiiekekw 01 06,2021

Fujoshis are "generalized" because they ARE detestable and disgusting. Chances are, someone who just reads BL for the "chemistry and the hardships" is not going to be running around calling themselves a rotten girl-- aka a fujoshi. "Fujoshi" is a self-proclaimed label for those who take not even just BL, but the whole sexuality of "gay" to the ex...... reply

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Nobody 31 05,2021

Well, fujoshi, like otaku, have negative connotations, and liking BL does not make one a fujoshi. Fujoshi usually are the fans that take it to the extreme, hence giving BL/yaoi fans a bad name. reply

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MysticMad 01 06,2021

That's pretty easy to explain. Its just the same old same old, misogynistic shit that aimed at women that like anime and manga. literally, people like to use the same argument of OH NO THEY'RE FETISHING GAY PEOPLE. When rationally, yaoi is just like romance works just with gay characters. Which do have the same shit in it the good, the bad and the ...... 2 reply

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Gino Iq 31 05,2021

My advice, just don’t care anymore, that’s what I did, and I haven’t cared since, people will continue to conflate those bad stereotypes with the term, nothing u can do about it and don’t apologize for the shitty actions of others , if u don’t do those things don’t apologize for the people that do, reply

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LovelyD 01 06,2021

Tl;dr: fujoshis have a bad rep because most of them act gross so as long as you don’t act gross, call out gross behavior, and don’t call yourself a fujoshi then the criticism doesn’t apply to you so why are you getting upset. 1. Why do y’all need a name to identify yourselves as that literally means rotten girl anyway? 2. Most fujos eithe...... reply

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ilyozu 31 05,2021

I'll be real here. Some may see you as disgusting person and some will not. Some will not give a flying fuck and some will. People have different opinions so just go read and do whatever you want. I'm already tired hearing the same shit. You too probably. We can't change their minds so let them be. If you think you're doing something wrong then...... reply

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kahidlaw 31 05,2021

these mixed commentators usually target readers who consume bl for all the wrong reasons/ intentions, not really generalizing the entire bl-reading population. as long as you don't worship the shit side of bl, then you got nothing to be worried about. though it's rather odd to get offended by criticisms that aren't aimed at you... reply

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