sorry why do we call it transphobic

transmisia is probably a better term for hate than -phobic which implies fear or severe anger due to fear.

lets be real, these people do not fear people who are transitioning or have transitioned, they just hate them and think their existence is inferior to theirs. If they were truly afraid of them, they would be shaking in their boots, afraid to even speak out, but avoid them like the plague. But no, these "transphobes" are coming out strongly on the matter with confidence and stride. -misia describes severe hate toward something. My misophonia and arachnaphobia comes from two different places...
Plus im lazy af and transmisia is 1 letter shorter than transphobia

Second why are we so interested in calling them out instead of explaining things normally and calmly. this is the pacifist in me so sorry. But unless you have a military and strong government rule, nobody gives a shit about how much you curse and scream on the internet. It is hard convincing people by doing that irl anyways. People are natural truth seekers, but are also selfish/too kind and lie. Most will be swayed by presenting facts and being polite in the face of hate and anger. but name calling, fear mongering, giving someone's account link out on a call put post for ease of access to hurt someone instead of making those problematic people go find the account themselves (reducing the amount of hate cus lazy af ppl), screaming in caps, gatekeeping, etc. — since when has that ever convinced you to say, "wow, I was wrong"? Probably made you say, "wow, these people are nutjobs."