I don't know anymore

I'm a bi/pan girl reading mlm, and no I do read other genres. I don't get off to it/fetishize it/ship ppl irl/hate lesbians.
I think I am a fujoshi because fujoshi means a women reading mlm. I don't think it has anything to do with fetishizing mlm.
I read a post somewhere that all fujoshis are messed up in the head (??) or something, which I personally don't .
Is it true? What are your thoughts on this?
Ps please don't judge me because of my username, I couldn't decide of a name and saw someone with the same name on other site, so I thought of naming myself that. And I didn't even knew what a whore was when I made this account. (English isn't my first language and my parents teach me english so I rarely get to know about the cuss words if english)