I am a girl reading BL mangas and it makes me horny. Am I fetishising?
I heard for the first time about fetishising gay people on this site and apparently it is something extremely bad. Racist bad and it makes me question whether I should continue reading BL. If it is offensive to gay people, I will stop.
i get the idea of "racist bad" but i guess my question is, do you? it's targeting a marginalized group/minority, but like, a lot of it is porn with the intention of making the audience horny to begin with so i can't say for sure whether it's a good or bad thing. to call the act of consuming fiction about two characters having sex "fetishization" is...... reply
it's when someone thinks that lgbtq couples are just doing it for the sexy time and not because they could actually romantically fall in love with them so some people just see gay couples as a kink.
it's extremely disgusting because some straight people will say shit like- "I could turn you straight" or "you just need to find the right woman/man....... 2 reply
Well apart from the horny part---it depends if you're literally obsessed with it (((For an example, Fujioshi))). Yes, it can be offensive to gay people cuz they are being fetished. It's no real problem if you read BL, but if your obsessed, that's lowkey a problem. reply