I like being alone maybe too much?
When I was young, marriage etc seemed appealing because it seemed far. As I udulted it seemed scary because I realised I don't want to take care of somebody forever. I was also scared of having children. Also, I don't see a real reason to get married, Love nope that's a myth.. financial benefit... don't need that thank the heavens. Convenience... how? they are always there next to you how is that convenient. So I thought lets study. I actually thought I was asexual but nope turns out iam not. My friends think I haven't found anybody compatible to me. Oh and am introverted. I socialise when need be.. but it is a pain... The more I stay alone, the more I discovered things about my self and body, new hobbies etc. Dates have become a chore... My family told me I will change my mind as I age. Now 25, still do not want to get married or date. I do maybe want one child now tho. 1 child... maybe?, with a surrogate, or adopting only because I don't want to be alone when I age... but that's the only reason why. Still, don't want to get married, divorce is a hassle. And relationships are too dramatic for my liking. YES, IAM A MENTAL CASE I KNOW!!!..thank you very much..
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You seem to be aromantic then. People often confuse aromantic with asexual but they are not the same thing.
I was honestly like "YES EXACTLY!!" to EVERYTHING u had to say there, from the start till the end! Wow! This made me realize I'm just another normal/weird person on earth lol. Happy to know m not alone. Cheers!
actually you just explain who ı am right know. ı also thought maybe ı am a asexual but as ı see ı am not. however trying to imagine to have relationship just give me a headache.
You're an introvert, plan and simple. My brother's the same way, and pretty much says the same thing you do, though he doesn't believe that love's a myth, just not for him. And you know what, there's nothing wrong with it. Anyway who says otherwise is jus going with society standards of what they feel like they're "supposed" to do. It's you're life, you live it the way you want, and not by what other people say, because they're not you, and what works for them may not work for you.
thank you...