My "coming out"

I told my mum for the first time after she said something weird homophobic bs,she ignored me and she also isn’t homophobic ive talked with her about it so but i think both of my parents probably know and they have nothing against lgbtq its still so weird tho my mum said so many homophobic things but turns out she was at a lesbian club back in her university years and had a lesbian friend??? Seems fruity to me at least..hmm she said things like "if me and my sister would kiss..that would be disgusting" GIRL WHO TALKED ABOUT INSEST??? Also "i feel like the media needs to show that stuff do they get money for it?"- a scene where two women kissed in a movie..
She also told me its a phase and how i would know since i didn’t have sex with a girl (btw she is wrong LMAOO) but then me and my family were having dinner one time and we talked about rights and stuff and i said "schwul" wich means like gay or more like homosexuell like mlm and they were like "you cant say that" ( as a joke )because many people in Germany use that word as an insult and i accidentally said "i couldn’t even be homophobic in the first place" and my dad already knows im fruity so he was just like "so you’re in the community...?" And my mum got a bit mad so my dumbass decided to stay silent and we’ve never talked about it again since then?
Also for the mum thing i think she will accept me but it will be hard for her she gave me mixed signals so im just gonna wait a bit til i tell them i don’t have the confidence yet even if they probably already know.