BL authors

Am I the only one who doesn’t get why bl authors feel the need to add in toxicity and r@pe? Like bro Idk why so many manhwas and mangas like that exist. Is it so hard to make a couple with a healthy relationship? I’m honestly thinking about taking a break from bl but I can’t find an good straight manhwas/ mangas to get into. Some authors need to chill out fr. Lol I think I’m gonna start reading more action/horror cause I’m tired of it