I feel like this needs to be said.
some of y'all are detached from
reality
. when it comes to pronouns you can't expect someone to go up to you and ask "what are your pronouns?" it's less than likely going to happen. No one is going to be able to determine, "oh they look like they use they/them pronouns." Because besties the
Reality
is if you LOOK feminine or have female attributes your going to be called she/her. This might change later on but for NOW your pronouns are going to be determined by your physical approach. HOWEVER, you can always correct someone if they use the incorrect pronouns. I'll never understand why people get mad when i don't know their pronouns during our FIRST meeting. "THOSE AREN'T MY PRONOUNS! It's THEY/THEM" Stop just assuming! y'all, please just correct them. Pronouns are not predictable mainly when it comes to the OPPOSITE of your PHYSICAL apperance. There, please feel free to correct me.
So here's the thing;
Clothes do not have a gender. You should be able to ask and respect pronouns by default. People who get misgendered have every right to be upset especially since most of them suffer dysphoria.
If you saw an androgynous person (and most of the time enby people appear as androgynous as they can) you probably would refer to the......
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23 05,2021
