What is something hurtful your parents said to you and they don't even realize it?

One thing that my mom constantly said that just put me in a bad mood is, "God you're so useless!" She'd say it after asking me a series of questions that I didn't know the answer to. She doesn't say it as much anymore now because I had a drunken meltdown on her. Instead she now says, "Well what good are you?!" Which... Isn't great, but it's better......   reply

it isnt more something they say than it is something they do, whenever my mom or dad shouts at me or berates me, after a few minutes they just act like nothing happened and im not sure if this happens to other people but when it happens to me i just feel like my feelings are invalidated im crying over what they just said to me yet they think they c......   1 reply

I think it had to be the unconscious stuff my mom does. She never wanted kids and then she had my brother and I. So she would tell me all my life to move out as soon as I turn 18. On my 18th birthday if my step dad didn’t talk to her he let me know that she was planing on kicking me out on my birthday. Which is sad because it’s something she w......   reply

"We're trying to not do the things we did to you to your sister, and are trying to change for her—and you" yea.. ok well news flash, I'm not a social experiencement, and you fucked me up.   1 reply

Once my dad said to me, "Wish you were a boy". I know both of my parents are good but that really hurt me. ╥﹏╥   reply

“you have so much acne” well digity dongity dang seems like u think i cannot see   reply

My mom was scolding me and hitting me and my sad said “*mom’s name* it’s better if you hit her, because if I were to do it she would be dead by now”   reply