CRUSHING OR SIMPING?
hii I need major help! Okay so there’s this guy in my class we’ll call him ‘R’. In the beginning of the school year he reminded me a lot of Yohan (from Sign) and they share quite a lot of similarities. But I didn’t think of it much, then two weeks ago I find out that my friends also find him attractive! And lately I been finding myself making up excuses to talk to him and stuff like yesterday I asked to borrow an eraser, he sits behind me by the way, he said sure but never gave me one
. At first I thought I was just maybe attracted to him or maybe I’m simping. But I don’t know anymore! PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR OPINIONN
Some stuff about ‘R’
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He’s really quiet, barely talks
A bit of a loner
DOESNT talk to girls
Really smart
Tall, has really smooth and nice voice (main reason why I’m attracted)
REALLY SMART
Quite athletic
He’s really serious and rarely smiles
He’s pretty funny when he tries
He loves anime (which makes me attracted to him even more)
He’s a gamer and has discord but I don’t have the courage to ask him
My friend said he’s really nice and quite a gentleman
i cant really answer your question, but please keep this in mind. dont just like him because hes similar to yohan, he is his own person
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20 05,2021
im not the right person for boy advice, bestie but it seems like you really like him as in having a crush
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20 05,2021
GUYSSS UPDATEEE
School ended, I didn’t make a move since it was just an attraction NOT CRUSHHHING. I did take your guys advice and thought of liking him for himself and not just because he looks like Yohan. It seems that I was attracted to him cuz he’s a gentleman but other than that I really only thought of him more as a friend! My friend kee......
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10 07,2021
Like= personality+ appearance
Simp=appearance
Then u like him i think
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20 05,2021
Look, you don't have to question yourself anymore. Everyone loves a gentlemen. There is no other way to it. I'm not even surprised when you said that you keep making up excuses to just talk to him.
I have too many gentlemen in my class and I'm honestly glad we don't have to meet face to face right now. I would go and dig myself a grave by now. (......
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10 07,2021
Push aside his similarities to Yohan and look/talk to the person in front of you. If you still like him, his personality and stuff, then you like him ig ╮(￣▽￣)╭
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20 05,2021
Yep that's a crush right there. I kinda wanna know what happened tho cuz this question has been up for awhile.
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10 07,2021
