asexual maybe?? idk help

Hi there! I’m not ace, but I have quite a few ace friends. As well as suspecting I was ace, and being a part of the LGBTQ+ myself.
Yes, what you’re describing could be considered asexuality, but the ace spectrum huge. And although we can help, it’s ultimately YOU who gets to choose what labels you use. Use whatever labels you feel comfortable with. I have friends who choose not to label their sexuality because it doesn’t feel right, and that’s okay.
Asexuality is valid and know that people will experience asexuality in different ways. Sexual contact isn’t everything.
Some may be able to feel romantic attraction, like you, but some might be aromantic. Some may be okay with physical contact (like hugging, holding hands, kissing etc.), and some might not like it. I have an asexual friend that sex-repulsed and don’t want to partake in it at ALL, but another one is okay with the idea of having sex to have children one day with the person he loves.
It’s okay and that’s valid. They’re still both asexual.

There’s so many other places on the spectrum too like demi, aego, grey, cupio etc.

BUT it is important that you know: labels don’t define everything, and it’s okay if you get it wrong or choose not to use one. Even if you find out you’re not ace in the end (for example: finding out that maybe you’re abrosexual), it’s okay. Some people just KNOW straight away while others get it wrong MULTIPLE times, they’re all valid. I got my gender and sexuality wrong multiple times.

And you’re never too young, it doesn’t hurt to try things out, like new labels and pronouns. I told my mum when I was 12 that I thought I could be trans, she screamed and said I was too young, so I just pushed the thought away and decided not to bring it up again. Oh boy look where we are now, almost 4 years later