I need advice (idk why im putting this on this site...)
I hope this doesn't get taken down bc im really desperate. My sister has been playing this game for a few years and she was 13 when she met a 20 year old Indian guy on there she told him she was 17 WHICH IS STILL A MINOR, that didn't stop him from getting involved with her romantically. Fast forward 2 years later(now) they're texting and sending photos to each other. She still tells him she's 17(his dumba** didn't realize). The red flags (i mean there are a lot so far) are this guy is very possessive and even made her delete her main instagram account bc he didn't want other people following her. He's also homophobic/transphobic and filling my sister's head with gibberish. HE ALSO GOT HIS PHONE STOLEN IN WHICH HE HAD MY 15 YEAR OLD SISTER'S PHOTOS (not nude just selfies). guys im really scared for her i feel like a disappointment. My parents will never confiscate her phone bc she throws a tantrum. What do i do?!
UPDATE: THE GUY KNOWS SHE'S FIFTEEN AND HAS TOLD HER THAT HE DOESN'T THINK ANYTHING'S WRONG WITH IT. I'M CRYING HOW DO I SAVE MY SISTER?!!
first of all.... tell ur parents to beat her ass cuz aint no fcking way they gonna not take her phone away just cuz of a tantrum. You're literally doing everything you're supposed to do and your parents need to man tf up cuz they the adults here. make them aware that this is a serious issue and can lead to ur sister possibly meeting this pedo. if y...... 1 reply
Id prolly say take her phone and hide it, and delete the app that she has.. or tell her how many red flags you're getting form their interaction. You could also try to scare her into stopping from talking to the pedo by telling her a story about how people get kidnapped from these types of people. reply
i'd report it to a sunbae, someone you can trust who's older than you (if you're a minor). i'd also try and figure out a way to take it to law officials; he's legally considered a pedophile, especially if he's sent +18 texts/pictures. i would take her phone no matter what and lock yourself in a room she can't get into (i.e. a bathroom), then send p...... 1 reply
maybe try going trough ur sisters phone and collect evidence then show it to her parents and contact the police cuz this is actually very concerning she’s 15 and she doesn’t know she’s getting groomed- 1 reply