Are you selfish if you want your partner to spend his/her time with you rather than their friends?

Well if they spend most of their time with their friends and doesn't take time for you then I think they could be the selfish one. But if you just want their time completely all to you then I think you might actually be selfish bud. But well I hope it turns out alright!   reply

Personally, I think that it's not really selfish to be feeling that, there's no need to hate yourself for it either -it's your body making you feel that way and it just cannot be helped. What I would perhaps consider selfish though would be you acting upon that feeling by restricting your partner and not allowing them to spend time with their frien......   reply

yes? tf? you can't control your partner's life. if they're ignoring you all of the time, just dump them. the relationship is doomed at that point. but just hanging out with their friends and you get jealous? get over it. it's not fair for them to have you wanting all of their time.   reply

(Sorry, I'm not used to this site so my answer is all messed-up.) In my opinion, it depends on how you handle things. I don't think you should be ashamed for feeling this way, especially if your partner doesn't spend as much time with you as you'd like, but from personal experience I know that nobody likes a control freak. I think it's normal to ......   reply

"Partnership, not ownership" is what I usually keep in mind. The answer to your question really depends on the situation. If your partner has barely spent any time with you then no, you are not selfish. I personally would like to spend time with my partner as well but if they want to spend time with their friends then why not? I don't own their lif......   reply

Depends on the amount they expect. I mean, if you're in a relationship you should expect and want some time together. If not, why are you in it? Constant attention expectations, however, is unreasonable. That's why the best relationships are where a couple have separate lives that interconnect.   1 reply

It’s not selfish to want your partner to spend more of his/her time with you then with their friends. I honestly think that’s a pretty normal way to think because when you are in a relationship you want that person to cherish you as much as you cherish them. However, this thought depending on how you choose to act could become selfish. Your pa......   reply

It depends on the situation. Like previously stated, if they spend all their time elsewhere then yes it's okay to want them to spend more time with you. But if you want them to simply spend all their time with you then that's unfair to them. They have their own identity and autonomy as well. And we all need some time to ourselves. If you are wanti......   2 reply

Yes.   3 reply

yes and no. it's ur right as the lover to deserve some of their time and if they don't like spending time with you well, it's either they don't love u anymore, ur personality sucks or they just want a break. (but well who knows, i'm not them) just keep in mind spending time with your lover is important but their friends were there for them prolly......   reply