Mom of 1

So, I'm a mom of 1 and at first I was against having kids cause I already knew the hardships. I took care of my niece her first few years of life till she got older and I told myself I'm never having kids after that.
Then boom, my baby daddy came into my life and I'm with 1 kid. Thank god I didnt have another cause it would have mentally drained my life. But after my first one, I decided not to have more kids.
Bringing a kid into this world is a lot of responsibility and you are never prepared for anything that comes your way.