oh yeah but I wasn’t planning on telling him, I send him a message that he wasn't supposed to see where I said that I love him and all... I had decided to send it and delete it after because we’d been hitting on the phone for two months and I wanted to move on because it was really hard. jokes on me, my internet connection had a problem that day and he saw it and said that he too. The first thing I said to him was “oh shit you weren’t supposed to see that” lmao
Finally, we stayed together for two months until I asked him to stop because I could see it didn’t mean anything, he said it was okay and it ended like that. But very clearly I would never have a relationship on the internet again it brings nothing good, you suffer just for nothing and you spend your time asking yourself lots of stupid questions so that in the end with hindsight you wonder if it was worth it. People, it’s your life, so do what you want, but I don’t advise you to try, it’s really not a good thing(I specify that my feeling has nothing to do with the person, on the contrary, I had come across someone very nice, funny, intelligent. . . He was good in every way, but it’s the distance that ruins everything).
*me casually walking back after telling my story to people who don't give a shit*
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To me you did the right thing I have a friend (thats younger than me btw) who’s been having online relationships although she’s not over 16 yet. It really concerns me and I try to warn her but she doesn’t rlly listen, she’s even in a poly relationship online rn and sometimes asks me for love advice every now and then (I’ve never even been in a relationship and she’s already been through like 4 even though she’s younger than me ) she’s been heartbroken so many times bc of it and many empty promises were made, I can say online relationships only produce bad results most of the time. I admire you tbh, not everyone can break up a relationship, some even turn a blind eye to the obvious fact that it would never work out but you did so good job. I hope you find someone you can be happy with some day (｀_´)ゞ
It’s also dangerous (self explanatory) so for the ppl who are planning to have online relationships ya’ll should be careful. Don’t be like the friend I mentioned before. That idiot sent pictures of herself recklessly to the guy she was dating, and they even had lewd rp convos. Also, please make sure you’re not a minor before getting into these kinds of relationships its realllllyyyy dangerous.