why do ya'll shame bottoms or submissive people so much?

theyre so annoying but its not like i hate them, I just love the strong independent ones more > < sorry   reply

People are misinformed about "submissive" or "bottom" The other reason is that usually in mangas they(author) make the story like this. Especially in yaoi, 70% are made in the story to be embarrassed bcz they are a bottom/submissive or implying is a shame to enjoy being one. The bottom/sub is also usually made week, dense, defenseless etc. And o......   reply

I think many people shame them either because they are considered vulnerable or because being a submissive person in any sort of context is considered "imprisoning" and not being free. I think many people forget about a common trait when it comes to submissive people: self respect. Many people who are in a position of "submission" in BDSM know t......   reply

I haven't been shamed. (yet)   reply

ikr   reply

I have no clue why you would shame someone for that, I see nothing wrong, personally I would never have sex full stop but I can't understand why people would shame them   reply