Should I tell them???

So I just wanna say I'm a girl and I am bisexual and I really like this girl and I wanna ask her out but my family is super homophobic like if it's not a boy and girl they get super mad and disgusted for some reason so should I tell them cause they say how they love me but every time I bring up the subject about a boy in a boy or girl the girl or something like that they get really mad at me?!

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aphrodite's wife 11 05,2021

it is better to come out in a safe environment, they could try to harm you so please be sure of yourself and be ready to accept the consequences, if you really trust them then go ahead reply

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um- 11 05,2021

its your decision, but I'd say don't cause it could risk a lot of things, like your family Turning on you, and tbh, no matter how many times they say they love you, it doesn't mean they do. love is something you have to show, not just say. if they say they love you, but constantly shame you for being bi, do they really love you for you, or do they ...... 1 reply

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IHateReality 11 05,2021

I think you should prepare for future it's risky and good luck reply

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Shadow 11 05,2021

It's your personal choice whether you choose to come out or not. It's also you who will have to face the consequences. Will it turn out okay or not, I don't know, you know your family the best. But if they are as 'super homophobic' as you mentioned, then I don't think the circumstances are safe enough for coming out, even more so if you don't have ...... reply

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Heyyoo 11 05,2021

Your family doesn't decide on who you are to date and I don't think coming out impulsively will do any good. It better to be patient, test the waters and come out in the right time. reply

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AlanisHappy 11 05,2021

No I don't think this is a good idea, I don't know your family but homophobic is still homophobic ¯_( ͠° ͟ʖ °͠ )_/¯ they are just going to mad at you. Just don't say them that you like a girl. reply

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monsterfiend23 11 05,2021

hi I was actually going through something similar. I agree with the person who commented before me, that you should make sure you're in a safe environment before you come out. Honestly, I'm okay with my parents not knowing im bi because they wouldn't take it well and would treat me differently so I haven't told them I have a girlfriend. But if it's...... reply

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