am i asexual?

i have a high libido, love making my partner feel great, WANT sex... but i dont find it enjoyable. im a bi woman and a top but because of endometriosis penetrative sex hurts. idk if that explains why i hate masturbating and why i dont get turned on by porn tho. sex to me is boring unless my partner is the only one enjoying themselves. i dont even find people hot or ever think of wanting to fuck them until i have a crush on them. is anyone knowledgable in this area lmaoooo i figure most of yall are lgbt which is why im askng here

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PumpkinPie 26 02,2019

As a (probably) asexual person this question really spoke to me because I spend a lot of my time being hella confused about what my body/brain are even doing. I don't think you're completely asexual if you still find sex enjoyable (Edit: sorry I miss read the question, but I think it is still applicable if you feel that you WANT sex even though you...... 1 reply

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Chesh_cat 26 02,2019

Google demisexual... might be your case. reply

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Anarri 26 02,2019

WTF? An asexual person is a person who NEVER feels sexual attraction to anyone. If you want to fuck the person you have a crush on, it means that you are not asexual. You may be demisexual or greysexual though... 1 reply

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insertde4th 26 02,2019

i don't think so. being asexual means that you don't experience sexual attraction towards any gender, or only after they have form a deep emotional bond (demisexuals) but that doesn't mean asexuals don’t have libido or sexual drive. some asexuals have aversion to sex, some are indiferent and find it boring and some are fine and might even enjoy. ...... 3 reply

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bookmunchies 26 02,2019

I wouldn't let the answers on here at face value. This is a very personal journey and there is not a lot of understanding in ppl who feel entitled to telling you how you should or shouldn't identify. Here's a tumblr I follow, you'll find a discord server somewhere on there, you can join and hopefully it'll help you figure it out. https://fuckyeahas...... 2 reply

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bird 26 02,2019

apparently "come as you are" by emily nagoski is a pretty helpful book on libidos for women, you could check that out if you like! 1 reply

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Rin 03 05,2019

[I may be late in answering this question,sorry] As an ace (and non-importantly a bi woman as well), you could be asexual as asexuals can still have sex drive. Since it’s an umbrella term and there are many types of asexual, asexual is actually not exclusively not having any sexual attraction but can be very low or rare for some asexuals, althoug...... reply

03 05,2019

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