is They/Them neutral?

Uh, I didn't know this could be considered offensive, I normally refer to everyone as they/them unless I know/remember their pronouns. I hope it isn't bad lol   reply

they/them is a neutral term and you can use it when you don't know the pronouns of the person you're referring to, but once you know they're pronouns you should use them. Ofc it seems like you did nothing wrong since you didn't know them so it's fine, you couldn't know they used neopronouns.   reply

I usually refer to people as they then if I don't know them personally or if I don't know their pronouns. if thats bad then i done messed up   reply