I need help
I have a sister that is 6 years younger than me, but despite that, we had a really good relationship with one another and we were pretty close.Even when I caught her doing something really wrong, I hid it from our parents and took her side (i did multiple times). We even had a thing where we would watch anime together for at least one hour everyday.
However, this last month she has been really rude to me. She purposely made plans to not attend to our "anime watching hour" and every time I confronted her about it, she would honestly be so disrespectful to me. Last night, we had a big fight and when i started crying, she told me "honestly, i dont care about how you feel and its not my problem". I'm honestly so hurt right now because i always protected her and put her in first place even when i knew she didnt deserve it. I havent spoken to her since then, but i dont like this silent act. What should i do?
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I think you guys should try and sit down and talk about without letting your feelings get in the way, like her explain why she did that and you listen and then tell her how it made you feel. If it doesn’t work out, distance yourself a bit, maybe she’ll come to you first. She could also just be growing out of it and not want to do it anymore but probably didn’t what to disappoint you and then her frustration came out at the wrong time
You should talk with her and explain your side of things clearly. If she is also sorry for what happened, you'll both make up easily.
On the other hand maybe she is just growing up and no longer wants to spend time with her older sibling. It happens and it's a natural way things happen. If that's the case there isn't much to do about it.