Finding your sexuality

F/16 I'm so unsure I kinda think I'm asexual but just in the way that I can't love someone and be in a relationship because I will get sick of that person and feel really trapped and stuff but I do like kiss people either it's girl or boy. What confuses me is I once felt like I really loved a boy a year ago I had a crush on him for a long time and ......   2 reply

I found out I was bi when I met this girl on high school, and...I just really liked her. You know those moments when you don't want to like someone or be interested in them? That's what happened to me, and well...yeah, I realized I was bi.   reply

when i was younger i thought i was asexual because i felt indifferent to literally everyone, but i really liked the idea of love and sex and weddings and all that jazz. but i just didn't feel any different for only person. then i was like "ohhhh i have to be demisexual!" so i thought there was that one person i would have to meet, experience someth......   reply

The fact that for the longest time since my early teens I've found myself disgusted every time I imagined doing it. While I can be classified as horny f**k with what I read, I realised that I have 0 interest in sex irl. Same goes for romance. After my first boyfriend, I am almost sure that I'm ether aro ace or demi for both. I like the idea of hav......   1 reply

I think because of how I was raised it came as a natural thing to me that different sexualities existed so never really wondered what i am. I always liked boy and one day I found this girl attractive, and realized that althought I preferd boys girls werent so bad either. I am mostly attracted to boys, and when looking for a partner always looked fo......   1 reply

Where I'm from, sexuality isn't openly spoken about. It's a small community but no one really speaks with others about these kinds of things. And for a long time, I just went through life living it the way I wanted to. I realized in my last year of secondary education that I was missing out, apparently, on a lot of stuff. I just scoffed at my class......   reply

I liked boys, but I didn't realize I liked girls too until high school when a girl in my class joked around about kissing her. I was a bit surprised at first, but then I actually considered that and in my mind I was like ''yeah,I'd kiss you'', she was pretty hot too tbh, she still is, actually. After that moment I finally noticed that actually my f......   reply

my first kiss was at a very young age and with a girl, it wasn't my idea but I agree to do it, and for me doing stuff like this with a woman is normal, I also did some more stuff. At the same age, I almost had sex with a boy, also not my idea but I agree to it too. And my parents are religious so they had talks with me about both things and said I ......   reply

When I was in elementary school I fell in love with a boy, and since I knew nothing about other sexualities, I just assumed everyone had the same. As I grew older and got to know about homosexuality I thought, hey, being with a girl sounds nice, too. I was a little confused because I knew nuts about bisexuality at that time and didn't know if ther......   1 reply

Funny story. I spent my teen years wondering how other girls so easily seemed to talk to guys and I thought I wanted that too, even though I never really wanted to date anyone. Then one day in college, my professor mentioned asexuality and something clicked in my head and I realized that was the missing puzzle piece. I was never "distressed" per se......   reply