Finding your sexuality

Hm. I thought I was heterosexual for a long while and then I stopped feeling anything for anyone so I assumed I'm asexual.. Now..I just don't care anymore. Must we label or categorise ouserselves in just about everything? This morning you might feel attracted to a woman but end up sleeping with a man in the evening only to wake up in the morning t......   3 reply

I'm an 18 year old male, I read yaoi and shounen ai to escape really. I've only told 4 people that I'm bi , and I feel like I will never want to tell my family . My family have sacrificed a lot for me but I feel like I will bring shame on the family. I started to accept the fact that I was interested in guys as well when I focused more on the male ......   reply

It actually took me about 8-9 years to figure it out. When I was about 6-7 years me and my childhood friend/neighbor used to kiss alot and I always found it kind of exicting. I didn't know what it meant at that time but I always feelt that what I was doing was wrong so I hid it. All the people I had liked for a very long time were boys so I tho......   1 reply

I don’t think i’ve found it for sure. But I don’t really care. Love is more important for me rather than gender   reply

I never really had an epiphany that I'm asexual. I'm 24 y/o and still a virgin. It's not like I waited for some guy to come sweep me off my feet, the thought just never appealed to me. I've dated numerous guys and every time we got to that part in a relationship I would get bored and my mind would wander elsewhere so I would just stop it. I have ne......   1 reply

Since my childhood i always knew i wasn't straight, all my crushes were boys, but i never got a sexual attraction towards them. Until the day i discovered porn, straight porn did nothing to me, actually i was grossed out, so i always went for women and lesbian porn. I've had the thought that i only am attracted to women sexually but not romantica......   1 reply

Honestly, because my close friend at the time said she was bi, i was like ok if she's bi im bi :) WHICH IS TOTALLY NOT HOW IT WORKS however, she did sort of open the door to a new world where i found out that i was attracted to other people who weren't JUST boys. for a while, i constantly conflicted with myself trying to decide on a sexuality, and ......   reply

had my first crush in the 7th grade and it was a girl. DAMN did i fall hard, that’s how i first realized i was probably a lesbian. 3 years later and i haven’t had a crush since so i can’t really act on anything to confirm it though v_v   reply

I never really had the "Wow! I'm ___sexual!" moment. Whenever people talked about their crushes, or partners, sexual attraction always played a big role, I never really understood it. It took me a few years, but I did finally figure out that I am Asexual.   reply

For years I identified myself as asexual because I was not interested in anyone but then I realized I'm actually a lesbian that didn't know the difference between friendship and romantic love. When I think about my past it was always there, being jealous of a friend, thinking they were a lot better than their boyfriends, etc. There's actually a BIG......   reply