What do you consider vanilla sex to be? and do you have any kinks you love?

For me 'vanilla' means slow, meaningful lovemaking without any Major kinks and acrobatics :D Just fuck around passionately and enjoying being together with someone, feeling the other body. It's gentler sex with lots of gentle kissing. Non-vanilla I would consider more frantic, more forceful with kinky things involved. Hard kissing, grabbing, moving......   reply

I agree with you that vanilla tends to be more gentler and plain to the point where your comfortable. Though for personally I consider it to be like the basic building block. Where are slowly possibly going to transition to something kinky whether its trying new positions,hair pulling, playing with toys etc.   reply

Vanilla sex, to me at least, consists of the four basic positions: missionary; doggie style; spooning and cow-girl. The pace is slow and gentle, with foreplay before and during the act. But I'm a Rocky Road kinda girl. I like things like bondage, humiliation, neglect and rape play. Hair pulling, biting, spanking, choking and exhibitionism are all......   3 reply

Vanilla sex to me is considered just regular standard sex, the in out.. except lesbians standard is eating out. No experimenting and just soft and gentle. Omg idk where to begin, I have too many kinks. I do have a fantasy I have which is be tied up, choked and spanked by 2 guys while they DP me  I can only dream they make a mess of me. Btw I have......   3 reply

Well vanilla sex is just regular sex. And then my kinks are... well I would really go along with almost anything but a master/slave role is kinda interesting... ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄   reply

vanilla sex is the regular sex. full of love and feelings. and of course i do have kinks like s & m master x slave   reply

I think vanilla is gentle sex, without extreme things. I like it when people wear uncomfortable clothes like tight leather jeans, pantyhose, harnesses or chokers. I also love to watch people in pain, not extreme pain but tolerable, just enough to make them cry a bit. Like whipping, slapping. I think it’s very fun to make someone hot and bothered ......   2 reply

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To me vanilla sex is the sweet gentle kind, what people would consider 'normal' sex. It's not rough but generally love making without the extra stuff. I'm into female domination, and I'm also a bit of a sadist so seeing my partner cry in a bit of pain or extreme pleasure is a huge turn on. My biggest kink currently is having my partner call me Da......   3 reply

vanilla sex to me is a cute, slow and safe sex... with a lovey dovey and calm vibe... hmmm my kinks are being humiliated, being a servant, being bitten, being submissive, age gap, roleplaying, being bottom to a crossdressing man or feminine man... am i forgetting something? i like to please my husband too   reply