What kind of person do you want to date?

if we are talking about ideal, i want a guy who is bi and is up for anything. someone who can match all of my kinky fetishes or at least try them once. someone who can be a super sadist like sm gokko and still give me the loving after care i need. i want a dom who can control me and out smart me while also letting me be my own person. it would be nice if this person shared the same interest like reading manga, watching anime, Japanese cooking, studying languages or watching documentaries so we could discus things without me feeling like ive just put another person in a coma. it would also be nice if they understood that i am severely introverted and sometimes just want to be alone. its not that im mad or hate them or anything like that. i just need my own time. lol thats a long list.