Would you want to have a fujoshi/fudanshi partner?

I used to date a bi guy who loved to borrow my bl mangas. It was fun for some points and less for others. It depends of the age and of the peoples, but now I think I would just prefer an open minded boyfriend who’s fine with me reading what I want and friends sharing my yaoi addiction aside. ╮(￣▽￣)╭   reply

I wouldn't describe my husband as a fudanshi, but he does read yaoi with me. Basically, we read select stories together when I have found a particular romance or sex scene that I like. Then, we emulate it. This is how my husband has chosen to enjoy my hobby with me. He's not a fan of homosexual romance, but he is not opposed to it or disgusted by i......   reply

I'd like a fujoshi partner that's alright with having a fudanshi partner. So we can talk about yaoi and stuff together.   2 reply

I had a fundanshi boyfriend, it was cool. I could talk to him about the stuff I was reading and he’d be into it. We aren’t dating anymore because things happened and unfortunately we couldn’t stay friends after but i do miss talking about yaoi and friends teasing us for it. It was something exclusive we shared and it was nice. My current boy......   reply

People shouldn't make friends over some hobby, much less a partner. I did and it was a mistake. I made friends over music (into metal, punk and rock). Some still great friends even after 20-28 years later. But the others simply looked to the other side when I needed the most. Look for friends and partners who share your values not hobbies. If th......   reply

Of course! It's nice to have something that I can excitedly talk about with my partner since I'm a very shy person. So having the same interest is really good ^^   reply

Actually before my crush knew I liked him we were friends. It was fun because we could talk about everything even boys love mangas and idols etc. The cutest thing ever was when he was fanboying over some asian singer and songwriter and how much he loved his voice (or how it turned him on but that’s not the point haha). Also we shipped guys togeth......   2 reply

Hm, honestly idk. Ideally I think it would be nice to date someone open minded towards BL. Don't think I've ever met a fudanshi though.   1 reply

I think it would be interesting.Talk to him/her about BL .I actually wanna date someone with same interests as me like (anime,Yaoi etc.) It will be fun and enjoy for two of us talking about this.I’m looking forward to find some fujoshi or fudanshi~   reply