i keep seeing cishet people on this website being so insensitive. how r u going to constantly fetishize and consume lgbtq+ content and then be a facking dick to real lgbtq+ people. nobody is cancelling u bcs they r sensitive, ur a facking asshole. PLEASE call me back when u get hatecrimed for loving someone, or wanting to be yourself, or stuggle to figure out who your are for months or even years.
Cishets "fetishizing and comsuming lgbtq+ content" and "being a fucking dick to real lgbtq+ people" go hand in hand much better than you'd like to think.
Most homophobes don't think they're homophobic and nearly all fetishizers don't think they're fetishizing. Not hard to wind up being both. 1 reply
wait so like i mostly refer reading shonuen ai rather than yaoi mostly for plot and stuff, is that feteshizing? and when i do read yaoi i mostly skip the "intimate" parts.... 1 reply