idk how to tell her that its unhealthy and something that should not be proud at like i told her to lower her yaoi reading obsession quite a bit but thats literally her fave thing to do..
If she likes it, then she can read it. It’s not your problem, nor your decision to make. Just leave her be. As long as she respects the characters, thinks consent is sexy, and doesn’t fetishize it, she’s good reply