What do you think about this

ive heard this too many times. as long as youre not fetishizing or putting it on/stereotyping actual gay couples, youre fine. its literally fiction. its like reading any other book/watching any other movie. it's not real and it doesnt affect anyone unless you purposefully do so. hopefully i dont have to say something so simple again loll   reply

I thought we already established that it is not inherently fetishistic. But at the same time, it’s undeniable that people do read BL/GL for those reasons— be it knowingly or subconsciously. I also like how cishets are complaining about how they’re “talking over actual MLM/WLW.” Cause let’s not play dumb here, you’re only saying that ......   2 reply

If people weren't reading bl/gl for whatever fucked up fantasies they have in their head about sexualities they aren't a part of, then they wouldn't even be reading bl/gl in the first place because they'd be reading lgbt+ content by lgbt+ people with the intention of portraying lgbt+ people properly. Or they genuinely think bl/gl *does* do that pro......   reply

This won't ever make sense to me... what if a pansexual or bisexual reads gl or bl?????? are they unable to fetishize then?? what if someone is nonbinary???? I know so many lesbians that read bl... Is that ok just because they are lesbians??????? what about asexuals that are also straight?????   2 reply

You can read a BL/GL story.BL and GL porn is not fucking okay. That's where I draw the line. Read a BL/GL story with smut in it? Cool! Masturbate on it? ...Uh, don't do that... Wanting to be a guy/girl so you can fuck a gay man/a lesbian? I will kill you and make it look like an accident. Most BL are written by women, and they have no idea what it......   2 reply

It's not that it's wrong and they aren't normal, after all it's up to them and their personal decisions BUT after all this long ride on reading bl I've encounterd many people that when reading, comment things sexualising them such as "I can' watch straight relationships, it disgusts me but when I watch gay men it's different" and they are actually ......   reply