do you ever see yaoi fans that get weirded out by actual gay people?
I knew some girls that also liked bl and were weirded out by a lesbian and then were basically??? fetishising some bi guys we knew? needless to say I cut them off and was super disgusted by those girls. I dont know if thats a double standard or something needless to say people are weird. Have you guys seen anything like this before? I know its a thing that some "hyper masculine straight guys" like lesbians but get defensive around gay guys.
if you're a straight girl who reads yaoi and gets actually weirded out by gay people please either reconsider your life decisions, fucking choke, or grow the fuck up. thanks c:
-an irritated gay dude
fetishization isn't nice, kids. reply
I personnally don't believe that reading yaoi automatically makes you non-homophobic. That's just something some (not all) fujoshis think because they want to feel like they're better human beings than everyone else by accepting two guys sleeping with each other.
And no. I never saw any situation like that happen before. Most likely because I don'...... 1 reply
honestly irl? no. but on this site? good lord, have i. there was one person who was complaining about living in a homophobic country and a gay man being ostracized and his boyfriend literally not being able to come back into the country, or something like that - but they weren't complaining about homophobia being bad.
they were complaining about n...... reply
yes i see cishet fujoshis fetishize gay men all the time and it weirds me out as a queer person honestly. i do feel like there's a shitload of hypocrisy, especially with those cishet fujoshis who think yuri/gxg is weird or gross but fap to yaoi lol. it's exactly like the straight men who love lesbian porn but hate gay men. and honestly, i hate most...... 2 reply
I have a few LGBT friends and they've been fetishized by this one classmate of mine. Of course I always go out of my way to defend them (I always have this angry look on my face for some reason, idk I'm usually happy but I'll just have a resting bitch face) because apparently I scare the guy. If I see a gay person in real life I'd just mind my own ...... reply
(⊙…⊙ ) wtf !? I mean seriously !? you read a ton of gay stuff and than you can´t stand the real thing ?!? sorry can't even understand how someone ever get weirded out by any kind of love ... I mean grow up it is just love ... you don´t need to be like that too so where is your problem ?! they don´t harm you ... I can´t understand somethi...... 1 reply
I've seen it online and I was not impressed, how tf are you gonna sit there and read about a fictional guy getting dicked down but when it comes to irl y'all say it's disgusting?? It's go big or go home, accept every part of homosexuality if you're gonna consume only part of it. 2 reply
Yes. One of my best friends likes Yaoi a lot, but one time she told me that she felt disgusted when she saw two girls kissing, but two guys kissing is ok. Honestly, i was so dissapointed. reply
Whenever I see a gay or lesbian couple or someone mentions their "partner" I just blink and think "oh, they're homosexual." And move on with whatever I'm doing. 2 reply
