like please, i see straight girls say "bUt I dOnT gEt OfF tO yAoI"
its not strictly sexual. it could mean objectifying someone for maybe being a WOC, or for their sexual orientation. Or even romanticising the dynamic bw 2 guys.
exactly like there is a huge difference between liking bl/gl stories more bc the plot needs to be 'better' than m/w plots to appeal the non lgbtq+ crowd and only reading yaoi bc u like seeing two men get on with it. Liking a bl or gl bc the plot interests you isnt fetishising, only really yaoi bc you like to see two men getting off on each other as a heterosexual is a whole different story
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exactly like there is a huge difference between liking bl/gl stories more bc the plot needs to be 'better' than m/w plots to appeal the non lgbtq+ crowd and only reading yaoi bc u like seeing two men get on with it. Liking a bl or gl bc the plot interests you isnt fetishising, only really yaoi bc you like to see two men getting off on each other as a heterosexual is a whole different story