Fujoushis and Fudanshis are we really fetishisizing gay men?

Tfw gay people have answered this question like a million times over but instead of listening to us for once y'all go and ask each other instead.   1 reply

Yes. You are.   1 reply

There is no way y’all are asking *other* fujodans for the answers...   1 reply

This is like a thief asking other thieves “is stealing bad”   2 reply

I'm not mlm but I'm pretty sure you are even if u arent it's really weird that u obsess over something like that   1 reply

you probably are   reply

ya kinda i think thats the whole point of yaoi. It doesn't really matter if you are unless you are openly telling people, pushing men in real life to be in relationships with other men, trying to get a "gay best friend", or are calling gay people your "bean". Just like, don't read yaoi w minors and keep it to ur self. If you are scared that you are......   reply

bruh yes most are and some arent undertsnad that already instead of asking a question that has been answerd 700 times   reply

I mean at the end of the day, if all us in this room know that this is just fiction, then I don't see any problem. Plus like obviously, non of the relationships work like it does in bl. In here you can just start spitting nonsense and eventually find something that is yaoi.   1 reply

Nah. The fetishizing claims were a creation by tumblr radfems to look woke while trying to control what women can or cannot read. Fetishization implies you read yaoi/bl but then act harmfully on irl gay men, which almost never happens unlike that crowd likes to say. This is why it's different from straight men watching lesbian porn, it's the irl ac......   3 reply