just needed to say this rq

I feel like I’m going to get shit for saying this but— non-binary orientations exist. Calling yourself non-binary and gay or non-binary and a lesbian is misgendering yourself. A gay person is a *man* exclusively attracted to men. A lesbian is a *woman* exclusively attracted to women. The terms *for* NBLM/NBLW created *by* NBLM/NBLW are Trixic/F......   2 reply

Non-binary people and sexual orientations that include non-binary people are 100% valid, but you absolutely just cannot have this conversation by saying shit like "A lesbian is not just about a women attracted to another woman". You're literally just trying to tell other people what their sexuality is and isn't at that point and it's completely una......   1 reply

Period   reply

To the people who misunderstood when I said this, "A lesbian is not just about a woman attracted to another woman". I was not trying to decide anothers' sexuality for them. What I really meant to tell y'all was: "non binary people can also be a lesbian and it doesn't mean that they *themselves* are saying they're a man/woman, because they literally......   reply

I'm gay so maybe I'm ignorant about my own gayness? but I thought being gay or lesbian was basically the same thing as a straight relationship but just with two people of the same gender. So I don't really get how a lesbian or gay relationship is more than being attracted to the same gender.   1 reply

so true bestie   reply