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how do you guys reconcile with your parents after a huge fight ?
i love my parents, maybe not really. we fight a lot, but one time it got really serious it stressed me out for about half a day. during that, i noticed how my parents would just talk to me casually like nothing happened. i was a bit annoyed that they were so casual about it (im used to them never saying sorry, they never did. when i argued to them about it, they changed the topic by telling me not to raise my voice). so i tried ignoring them, but in the end i just got nagged. "so you dont need us anymore huh?" stuff. its like this for me everytime, so i decided to move on
how about you guys ? id love to hear you rant, but please keep your privacy in mind. if you have some advice for me, you can say it but i dont think ill ever do anything about my situation
even if your right, theyll never admit it....
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09 03,2021
+the one who nagged me for raising my voice was my dad. ironically, he was the loudest out of all of us. sir, am i not your biological child ?
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09 03,2021
Fights in my house get completely ignored no matter how extreme they were, so yeah. I mean, is there anyone who can actually fight with their parents and have their parents actually admit that it was because of them?? If you have, please tell me how. I would love to not hate my parents.
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09 03,2021
I don't really have suitable advice but I- um don't get into too big of fights with them in the first place
It's them who usually starts it bc I did things wrong or bad .. um I just go with the flow, talk to them when I do and it slowly heals or something, I usually act like some idiot personality front of them and do ugly faces and weird gesture......
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09 03,2021
I rarely fight with my mom so Idk she makes sure we talk it out.
I would say that your parents are gaslighting you which is not ok. Maybe try talking to them about how they do that to you and if that dont work become a pain in their side
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09 03,2021
My mom just misunderstood everything.Okay so when I was telling her that our cat has been pooping everywhere in my room and i told my mom that i had to clean but not in a bad way and not in a bad voice i was just reporting it just so she can make the cat stay out of my room..i cant close it because I sometime get locked inside..and she was just lik......
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09 03,2021
Me and my dad have very similar personalities, so that makes us clash a lot. I usually get over it pretty quick but my dad drags it on forever, I usually just wait a few hours or the whole day or day until I just say sorry, I was wrong or somethin. If I was in your situation I would just stay in my room until they realise they did some shit which t......
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09 03,2021
