is it okay to have a genital preference?

i think we should leave this for the trans community to decide, but here's what i think: i sort of understand genital preferences to an extent, but if it's to the point where you aren't accepting, for example, a woman with a penis as a "real woman," that's when you know you're being transphobic....   1 reply

i dont think genital preference is transphobic since transpeople also have genital preferences themselves, but if someone shames a person for not having the genital they prefer, thats just being an asshole   1 reply

I'm sorry you feel you even need to ask this question. It's okay to be you. And that's all you really need to know.   reply

I don't think it's transphobic to have a genital preference cause isn't that's why there are a lot of sexualities? Unless you are discrimating against someone cause of their genitals or gender identity it's fine.   reply

it's not transphobic to have a preference. now, if you belittle them and make assumptions about them BECAUSE of their genitals, THAT'S transphobic.   reply

Definitely okay to have a genital preference but a genital preference doesn’t invalidate a trans persons identity or any persons sexuality. A straight girl who likes a trans man with no bottom surgery is still straight. A lesbian who’s into a trans woman who’s just on hormones is still gay.   reply

I can't speak for trans people but I can give my honest opinion. I don't think having a genital preference makes you transphobic since most people do have a preference. The problem is when you discriminated based on that. If you make a trans person feel like they aren't "real" men or woman bc of their genitals then you are being transphobic.   reply

i am nonbinary not trans so i cant speak too much over trans people but not really... a lot of trans people also understand that you may not be attracted to their genitals and thats okay but the problem only comes in when u think that bcs someone doesnt have bottom surgery they arent a woman/man , u dont have to have bottom surgery to be trans! a l......   1 reply

Call me stupid all you want, but what is genital preference?   2 reply

personally i think it's fine to have a genital preference because you're not hurting anyone and you can't just change that out of nowhere but i don't think it's okay to not date someone specifically because they're trans. like it's fine to be like "i don't wanna date you because you have *insert genital here*" but not like "i don't wanna date you b......   1 reply