Why do people want friends?
I find people emotionally, physically, mentally, socially exhausting and hard to be around. Besides they let you down and 9 times out of 10. You can't tell them shit without them running off and telling everyone your business. Alot of my issues and negative personality traits stem from friends and the stress other humans bring. They are one of the reasons why I go to therapy. I can't understand why there are SO many post and topics about wanting to have friends or why people want friends in general. Why people want to be around other people. There are way more negatives than positives when being friends with others just like being in a romantic relationship (that is a whole nother rant) There aren't enough words to describe how turned off I am by the idea of wasting MY time with other people.
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Maybe because we actually have good friends? All types of relationships require communication, and its much easier when you click with someone. I’m assuming you’re unaware of the blisses friendships can bring, and how uplifting they can be. Good friends don’t tear you down but make you feel like your best self. You seem to think that your time is worth more than friendships and relationships but maybe thats because you aren’t investing in them right... Don’t waste energy on people who don’t channel the same vibe or positive energy. They can be exhausting if you focus on the wrong things, or are with the wrong people. That’s exactly why so many people wish to find friends. REAL friends. Because that sense of fulfillment is special. Once you experience something good, you crave it again and that’s precisely why so many desire to connect with others.
Maybe because we actually have good friends? All types of relationships require communication, and its much easier when you click with someone. I’m assuming you’re unaware of the blisses friendships can bring, and how uplifting they can be. Good friends don’t tear you down but make you feel like your best self.
I only have one friend and we’re not that close and very different i like having friends tho bc u have fun with them and there always there for u, me and her are very different but when we’re feeling down or happy we just talk and it takes ur mind of things it’s also nice to know that someone truly wants the best for you even if it doesn’t benefit them
I guess I want friends to talk shit with and have fun with. If you don't have any friend wouldn't it be boring asf. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I mean then those weren't friends- i mean at least not to me. Friends are people i share common interest with if you don't know i'm on this site most of the time then bbg we aren't friends. If you don't fully trust someone enough to tell them your personal life, can they really be considered "friends". Um- i wanna be around other people because it's obvious asf i need attention and don't want to be bored asf because i'm not funny, i need someone to talk shit to me and i can talk shit back, and then it being all cool 2 seconds later. Honestly, it sounds like our living a pretty lonely and pessimistic lifestyle. But at the end of the day were all on this illegal website so-
Idk about others but I want friends but don't want them at the same time, I'm not sure how to really explain it. Maybe I just have trust issues lol