i actually already this on the question section but someone said i should do it here instead. idr ask or answer questions so I'm pretty new to this but i just need an answer for this.
so like, I'm a fujoshi and well, i masturbate on yaoi smut or fanfic smut. mostly its just fanfic smut but yeah. anyway so ive been doing this since i became a fujoshi and i thought it was normal but in all my years of being one and doing it, ive never really read a comment or post ab a fujoshi getting off on yaoi smut or like gay smut fics for instance. and idk, I'm beginning to think I'm not normal(in terms of fujoshi terms) and like...
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maybe they just dont publicly say it ?
I guess it is ok but it might be bad. You won't be able to get aroused in the future unless you see yaoi and the you won't be able to get into romantic relations cause you won't be able to do it with your partner.I suggest that you slowly get away from this habit. I guess occasionally is fine. I masturbate too ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ but i don't see gay stuff because i know i will get a habit of it and if i am to get a girlfriend( i am lesbian) i won't be able to get aroused. If your lesbian i suggest you masturbate with lesbian stuff cause it won't affect you. (=・ω・=)
idk what i would say about 'normal' or how common it is, regardless i think its kinda..wrong? conditioning your sexuality to respond near exclusively to unrealistic portrayals of male homosexuality made by women, for women, is fetishizing/homophobic but also unhealthy. human orgasms make for VERY strong conditioning. if it goes on too long you'd probably not be able to look at gay males/male couples without getting aroused. i would try to slowly get off masturbating to it if i were you
Some people are gonna be either harsh or nice here for their opinion so stay strong bbg.