That would probably not work
I could be considered a "fudanshi", as I love (some) yaoi manga. But on the flip side I don't fetishize gay men or try to force toxic gender roles on them like the girls tend to do. It will be hard to find a male straight boyfriend into yaoi that will see it the same way you do is what i'm trying to say.
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I mean, it's ok as long as you don't do it to actual people. THAT is disrespectful. But do it to fictional characters all you want. It really irks me when people take these things so seriously.
A lot of people do do it to real life men. Have you seen kpop fans?
Fetishizing unhealthy relationships and trying to present them as normal will always be wrong to me. I don't care how many people get off to it. They're free to produce such things, but I'm also free to call them out on how dehumanizing and unethical it is. If we replaced the "uke" with a woman in many of these stories it would seem a lot more disturbing and less sexy.
Yea I still stand on my opinion. But I get what you mean. I'm a fujoshi myself but I don't understand why people ship kpop band members so much. Or any other people really. It's so weird and makes the people in question feel uncomfortable. Hell, it makes me feel uncomfortable as well
Ah and just to avoid any misunderstandings I did not mean the crazy people fetishizing these things is acceptable and normal. I mean I kinda did mention that in my first comment but y'know just to be safe
I agree. I was like that in the past (when i was like 10). But now as i got older i realized how stupid it was. I'm so disrespectful towards the LGBT community.