Semes & Ukes
Maybe it’s just me, but I feel uncomfortable when people use the words. Like, I don’t know, I just feel like top & bottom is a better choice in my opinion if you’re referring to them that way. I mean, you can also called them by their name, or if you forget, their hair colour or height or eye colour or something other than their positions in bed.
I guess it doesn’t really hurt anyone though so I don’t really care, I just want to know if I’m the only one that feels a tiny bit uncomfortable with the words.
Maybe I’m just being sensitive, but I’m typically not, but I could be, so sorry.
Idc if they're fictional, referring to characters as their positions during sex is weird. Should be unlearned and shouldn't be normalized. I can see why gay/bi guys feel fetishized because no one refers to het or lesbian characters with such demeaning language. AGAIN IDC IF THEYRE FICTIONAL, IT'S STILL MESSED UP.
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03 03,2021
