first time being outed
Two days ago I was almost outed by my best friend to this other friend which I’m not close with. We were all in this group chat and I made a comment “who needs men anyways” and my bsf said JUST COME OUT ALREADY the other friend wasn’t in the chat but since it’s insta she probably saw in her notifications. I got scared and privately messaged her to unsend that and she was laughing and said ok and just brushed it aside. I felt scared and betrayed, I don’t want her to tell me when to come out especially to that friend I’m not even close with. I cried for a bit and just turned off my phone. I wish she didn’t say that my other friend probably knows and I don’t want her to bc I’m not even close to her for her to know that yet.
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im so ur friend did that to you. maybe you can play it off as a joke?