Hi I'm Sorry To Bother

I need to get this off my chest bc its been bothering me a lot today. Today I was just trying to go hang out with my family bc they say I never do. I don't really like giving hugs to ppl or affection in general. Bc I said I don't like hugs its awkward to my mom she replied with, "I wish I had another daughter who gave me cuddles." I'm sorry, but when she said that ofc thats gonna hurt me. So I told her that what she had said kinda hurt me. Then I get a reply if why would I be offended when its just a joke? How is it not gonna hurt someone when you tell them they basically want someone better than you who can fill all their needs and you're not really that wanted? I know I'm probably just in the wrong for taking that comment to that level tho. I'm sorry for this being longer(〜￣△￣)〜