Okay here we go again.
I’m just know seeing the replies to
http://www.mangago.me/thing/about/385192/ A lot of the replies are “if someone is/said *terrible disgusting thing* I should be able to tell them to k/ll themselves”. No you f/cking shouldn’t.
I get that it feels like sh/t to see something triggering and you want to lash out. The people I’m talking about that you shouldn’t tell to k/ll themselves have triggered me TODAY. But that isn’t an excuse. It’s comparable to someone calling you a slur and you directing a different slur back at them. You’re both saying disgusting heinous sh/t. The other person might be worse but that isn’t a reason to be sh/tty back.
Also I don’t know if anyone has realized but even if you are okay with saying something terrible, that terrible thing you said (like kys) might trigger someone completely uninvolved with your argument..... Which is something you should really care about.
(And also: You aren’t getting anything done. Arguments should be productive or else it’s just two people spouting insults until they both leave and no one changes their mind. You aren’t going to insult someone into being a better person and insulting someone won’t make you feel any less hurt. If anything, all telling some to k/ll themselves accomplishes is; making them even less likely to listen to you or change their behavior. You’re working against you own interests.
And if your whole goal is to just make someone feel sh/tty for making you feel sh/tty, maybe examine why you feel the need to do that.)
-OP of the linked post
I agree. No person, even if they do say awful things, deserves to be dehumanized and be told that their life is disposable for simply for being uneducated/an ass. That ideology causes more problems than fixes them.
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28 02,2021
Not to bring up sad boi hours or anything, but as a survivor of a suicide attempt, it is kinda shitty to make light of suicide by angrily telling someone to go kill themselves.
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28 02,2021
lowkey only read the first sentence and stopped
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28 02,2021
You could be my best friend in the world, if you go and tell someone to kill themselves I'm not sorry in telling you get the fuck out of my life. Excuse my language, but this is a serious issue. It's a cowardly thing to say to anyone in my honest opinion. You have no right to say that to/about anyone.
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28 02,2021
I’m just now*
(Oops sorry)
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28 02,2021
Ive never told anyone to k*** themselves but honestly if anyone else said it to someone who was an asshole, i would keep it cute and mind my own. I wouldnt give a shit at all.
But i can see where your concerns are coming from that it can trigger people who've gone through some trauma so i can agree to a certain degree. Especially since that line ho......
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28 02,2021
I'm just going to say this right now if they come at you telling you to kill yourself and then you say it back to them I doubt either of you are going to do it people just say it to try and hurt the other persons feelings I'm not saying it shouldn't be taken seriously but I think this is a bit dramatic I personally won't say it to anybody but I dou......
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28 02,2021
wait people are sending death threats to the trolls on the share page- I mean I know ya'll mad but that ain't the way to go about that situation
(this is just my opinion)
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01 03,2021
I get ur point but I still do not care
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28 02,2021
Damn neo-liberal, you can't solve anything.
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28 02,2021